7 Habits of Highly Successful Youths Part 5
Habit
5: seek to understand, then seek to be understood
Because most
people do not listen very well, one of the greatest frustrations of life is
that many do not feel understood. This habit
Will ensure
that a child will learn the most important communication skill is: Active perception.
Why is this
habit essential for proper communication? Well the most beneficial need of a
child’s psychology is the need to be understood. Everyone wants to be respected
due to their unique biological organism. People will not expose their emotions
unless they feel respected and loved by the populace. Once they perceive the
world through the yes of the respected individual, however they may exhibit and
relinquish information you may not want to hear. People really do not appreciate your
knowledge until they have evaluated your compassion.
Listen with
your auditory organ. “100 percent of communication is retained in the words we
have gathered. 53 percent is retained with in our knowledge of words that seem appropriate
toward the situation at hand. 40 percent is retained with in our enthusiasm to
speak.
Most People
are would rather speak than perceive. We have one oral area and two auditory
sensory organs. This teaches us to listen intently and speak with moderation.
We obtain much more information when we listen rather than when we speak. Learn
to perceive and perceive to learn.
Listen in
order to process information.
Seek first
understand then to be understood
CHOOSE THE
RIGHT!!!!
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